Cleaning the house!

February 7, 2010 anzafit1

Life is motion, sometimes we like it, and feel real excited about new things in our life, our goals seem closer, or still far away, and you may even think they will never happened. When you are feeling down and your energy is lower then low, its easy to fell sorry for your self, or even worst: theirs a panic bottom inside you that some push, and its fear and you just froze…and then all hell goes loose! ahhhhhh! Remember fear only fear itself!

But stop for a moment and quiet your mind, your surroundings, and you will then realize that your inner voice (that in this case i will like to call God) is trying to tell you something. You know something is wrong, and you have to shake it off faster then a blink of an eye, if not you will be stock there and you are slowly sinking, and sometimes you wont wake up until you hit rock bottom!

When you ask for help, it will come in all different kind of packages, shape, and forms, lets hope that you accepted it, and please don’t start doubting, its a normal reaction, but snap out of it, and listen, rise up, move, and go and do what ever it is that you have to.

While this process happens, most of the time life will push away as far as possible all the negativity, bad vibes, and pardon my language all the crap we have around us, and yes people that no longer cant be in your life.
At first you may fell guilty because they were your “friends” or you think so! But then you realize they were only loading their crap on you, or you aloud it to happen because every single time they had a stupid comment that you dint agree on, you just took it, quietly thinking that if you have said a word they might be offended, mad or even worst stop talking to you. Looking back that would have been the best thing that could happen. But then again, you dint want to make anyone uncomfortable but yourself.

At some point you start to do the right thing, getting up, take a big or little step toward your goal, all it takes its a leap of Faith, and the wheels of motion will go on. People will think they have a power over you, that you wont survive or make it without them, and all this time its wasn’t support, what they were giving you or honesty no, it was manipulation, putting your down, making you doubt about yourself, and making you fell that if by any chance you achieved something it was only because of them, and you have to be grateful and willing to take care of them for the rest of your life.

Lets make one think clear: manipulation, envy, jealousy, prejudice, is not friendship. Friendship is support, inspiration, honesty. Friends that really fell happy when you achieve your goals,and have a strong but kind word to pick you up when needed, not the ones that enjoy your sadness, frustration, and bad moments, because they are miserables to and thats what they want you to feel (misery likes company)

So clean the house, even if you refuse to believe that you have to, down deep inside you know you have too. If not, they will continue to feed from your positive energy and steel your joy. And when you realize its, it will hurt even more.

Life is this perfect space of universe that every thing has a cause and effect, and at some point you will see them for what they really are. And guess what, sometimes you dont even have to say a word because life itself will push them out of yours, as far as possible.

So clean the house and put out the Welcome sign to: Good Work!, I’m glad you achieved it!, It can be done!, Go for it! honesty,vision, and close the door to the the sarcasm, envy, jealousy, manipulation.
Take a closer look and you will see them for what they really are…

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