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Cleaning the house!
Life is motion, sometimes we like it, and feel real excited about new things in our life, our goals seem closer, or still far away, and you may even think they will never happened. When you are feeling down and your energy is lower then low, its easy to fell sorry for your self, or even worst: theirs a panic bottom inside you that some push, and its fear and you just froze…and then all hell goes loose! ahhhhhh! Remember fear only fear itself!
But stop for a moment and quiet your mind, your surroundings, and you will then realize that your inner voice (that in this case i will like to call God) is trying to tell you something. You know something is wrong, and you have to shake it off faster then a blink of an eye, if not you will be stock there and you are slowly sinking, and sometimes you wont wake up until you hit rock bottom!
When you ask for help, it will come in all different kind of packages, shape, and forms, lets hope that you accepted it, and please don’t start doubting, its a normal reaction, but snap out of it, and listen, rise up, move, and go and do what ever it is that you have to.
While this process happens, most of the time life will push away as far as possible all the negativity, bad vibes, and pardon my language all the crap we have around us, and yes people that no longer cant be in your life.
At first you may fell guilty because they were your “friends” or you think so! But then you realize they were only loading their crap on you, or you aloud it to happen because every single time they had a stupid comment that you dint agree on, you just took it, quietly thinking that if you have said a word they might be offended, mad or even worst stop talking to you. Looking back that would have been the best thing that could happen. But then again, you dint want to make anyone uncomfortable but yourself.
At some point you start to do the right thing, getting up, take a big or little step toward your goal, all it takes its a leap of Faith, and the wheels of motion will go on. People will think they have a power over you, that you wont survive or make it without them, and all this time its wasn’t support, what they were giving you or honesty no, it was manipulation, putting your down, making you doubt about yourself, and making you fell that if by any chance you achieved something it was only because of them, and you have to be grateful and willing to take care of them for the rest of your life.
Lets make one think clear: manipulation, envy, jealousy, prejudice, is not friendship. Friendship is support, inspiration, honesty. Friends that really fell happy when you achieve your goals,and have a strong but kind word to pick you up when needed, not the ones that enjoy your sadness, frustration, and bad moments, because they are miserables to and thats what they want you to feel (misery likes company)
So clean the house, even if you refuse to believe that you have to, down deep inside you know you have too. If not, they will continue to feed from your positive energy and steel your joy. And when you realize its, it will hurt even more.
Life is this perfect space of universe that every thing has a cause and effect, and at some point you will see them for what they really are. And guess what, sometimes you dont even have to say a word because life itself will push them out of yours, as far as possible.
So clean the house and put out the Welcome sign to: Good Work!, I’m glad you achieved it!, It can be done!, Go for it! honesty,vision, and close the door to the the sarcasm, envy, jealousy, manipulation.
Take a closer look and you will see them for what they really are…
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Really Happy New Year!
Its been a while since I wrote something because a lot is been going on! Yes its the beginign of the year, and as always we all wish for a Happy New Year to our family’s and friend and ourselves, but lets take a closer look to these words that we burst out, sometimes without even thinking.
HAPPY NEW YEAR!, lets face it’s a chance for us to let go of all the “crap” pardon my language but I’m being honest, we had in the past. You had 12 months of intense experiences, lessons, and daily situations,we lost love one’s, move to new place’s, etc. in general some good and others not so much, but they happened and they let you with emotional scars that need to heal, but its part of life and we learned hopefully from them in able to move on, and pass the lesson in order to move forward, otherwise they tend to repeat them selfs until you do. Review all of it, and take in what you were suppose to learn to move on.
There are two choices: first evaluate all that you been through, analyze it, process it and hope the lesson that was intended with it you learn it. You may have pass with flying colors or barely make but make sure you learn something. How do we know if you learn something from it? Good or Bad it doesn’t matter because is the attitude you chose to face during the adversity of the situation, that will make the difference, raise to it, take the best out of it, some will say: I chose to see the glass half full not half empty, and when you can truly from your deepest say it and turn it to a positive then you really learned from it.And if by any chance it happens again be able to recognize it right away and stop it from repeating.
The second choice: sit down and keep dwelling on the past, in all the I should have done this, or say. Refusing of letting go of the past, a phase in your life that is no longer coming back you mutilate your future because of the decision of not moving on, letting go. Don’t take me wrong, theres nothing wrong in remembering the good old times but you have to move on, live the now make the best of it in order to have a better future.
So in this new year that its barely beginning just 6 days raise above yourself, challenge yourself, get out of the comfort zone and do what ever it is that your soul is shouting for.
But do it for yourself not to make others happy, enough all ready in making everybody happy, saying yes to everything even when you don’t want to do it, NO STOP THAT CYCLE ONCE AND FOR ALL, just do what makes you happy, (its not going to be easy, some may get mad at you) start taking care of the most important person in your life: YOU, YOU, YOU! It may sound a little selfish but in other to make someone happy you have to love yourself first and make yourself happy, then all the pieces will fall in place.
You will be attracting to your life, successful relationships, good moments, and all the blessings the God has for you, and the people are going to sense that light, that warmth in you because of the love that you chose to give yourself.
Life may not be a party, but its sure a Blessing that should be played with the best tunes, lyrics and rythinms that there meant to be. But that my friend is up to you, so I don’t know you but I chose to move on, learn from the past, live my best live now because my future without any doubt is all ready been BLESS BY GOD!
Its not how many times you fall, its how many times you stand up and don’t give up. Never forget that God and his Angels are waiting for you to ask HIM for help!
HAPPY NEW YEAR! May it be full of Blessings, Love, Prosperity, Good Health and Excited twist and turns with great surprises!
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