Why it was so breath taking and relaxing? Why it hypnotized me and I just could’nt move?
Maybe becasue the water was just being that, water, in its pure simplicity, full of energy but at the same time so peacefulll.
Or maybe it was that the glass that she’s sliding on and supporting her dint interfere with its true nature. The glass allow the water to be it self to express the only thing she knows strenght, pureness, energy and much more…

When were going trough the changes and rollercosters of life, we have different fellings towards it, we can be sad, or happy, or nostalgic, happy, grateful or in pain it dosent matter what your felling becasue its part of beign alive accepting our fellings when you go through all the stages and changes of life.

Some times the hard part is not dealing with what your felling, specially if it is pain or sadness because of the lost of someone or something in your life, no the hardest part is when does who you love cant allow you to go through your process of felling.

I know their intentions are good, and they want to convince you of not felling anything, to turn the page and move on. We all know that life goes on that we have to keep living and eventually move on.
But only you will know when its time to turn the page and move on, its going to happend when your ready, you got go through a process what ever it is, and sometimes you dont have the answer right away to say this will be done in a couple of hours,days or weeks.

The process of mournig or grief its very personal and you can’t rush it or denied it, believe me turning your back on it or not wanting to accept it, will make things harder and painfull becasue sooner or later you will have to go through it in order to move on and then turn the page.

Its not freezing time or stop liviing becasue life is constantly changing and like the waterfall is always moving, flowing being it true essence of water. But the glass also had an important role, it dint interfere the flow of the waterfall, it just support it and allow it the water to be just that water.

We all like to share happines and good times with our friends and love ones but also we have to Allow them to be sad, or nostalgic lend them a loving hand in supporting and understanding but at the same time allow them their space, and their process, sometimes not saying anything and just being their in silence or a shoulder to lean on and cry if its necessary is what we sometime just need. You may not understand it, or accepted it but you have to respect it.

Don’t try to make them avoid, or ignored their pain or sadeness, or tell them what to or not to fell nobody has that right, because they will run as far as possible from you and hide from the world until they are ready to come out becasue they turn the page and now there ready to move on.