Archive for December 1st, 2009
Chaos & Order, the balance of life!
Have you ever asked your self why is it that after a Storm nature readjust itself and the morning after everything is fresh, bright, and fully awake?
Its nature way of balancing itself, some times chaos is necessary in our life’s to reorganize itself and start new, from scratch. We don’t want changes in our life’s but its necessary because life is movement its constantly changing even if don’t want it to, we don’t have control of that. What we can control is our attitude towards the change or chaos.
Changes are stressful, resisting or opposing its only going to make things harder on us. Death, separation,sickness or moving sometimes bring chaos into our life, but after experiencing almost all the above mention (except sickness Thank God) in just a few months I now look back and I’m thank full for all of it. It was necessary in order for me to grow, and become a better person and discover a new, strong, woman.
Don’t get me wrong I still cry when I think about my Mom passing away shortly,and I wish she would still be with me, but it was her time to be with the Lord and I know by Faith she’s in a better place, without pain and surrounded by God’s love and his Angels and shes watching over me. Now my life and time belongs to me and I been learning to deal with this new phase in my life. And I still missed my “boyfriend” but our physical separation was necessary to grow and find out how strong our love really is and if its meant to be, it will be if not… only God know’s.
You see all these events back then caused chaos in my life, but today I have a new life, an opportunity for a new beginning, I had to choose between staying down after life throw me this giant curve ball, but I chose to embrace it and welcome the change and just go with it ( IT WASN’T EASY). So far life is good, its been a daily process getting to know me again but every day I’m discovering a different woman, one thats stronger than before and I’m no longer afraid of chaos.
I choose an optimistic attitude, sometimes I’m a little sad but God always give’s me a reason to smile again.
I’m closing all the cycles before the year end’s because I want to Welcome with open arms a new year full of Blessings, and wonderful things, I know there also going to be “stressful situations”but there necessary.
Next time you go through a major life experience or even if your in the middle of it, just ask God for strength , wisdom and guidance and things will be a little better and at the end.
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The Glass that supports the waterfall!
Why it was so breath taking and relaxing? Why it hypnotized me and I just could’nt move?
Maybe becasue the water was just being that, water, in its pure simplicity, full of energy but at the same time so peacefulll.
Or maybe it was that the glass that she’s sliding on and supporting her dint interfere with its true nature. The glass allow the water to be it self to express the only thing she knows strenght, pureness, energy and much more…
When were going trough the changes and rollercosters of life, we have different fellings towards it, we can be sad, or happy, or nostalgic, happy, grateful or in pain it dosent matter what your felling becasue its part of beign alive accepting our fellings when you go through all the stages and changes of life.
Some times the hard part is not dealing with what your felling, specially if it is pain or sadness because of the lost of someone or something in your life, no the hardest part is when does who you love cant allow you to go through your process of felling.
I know their intentions are good, and they want to convince you of not felling anything, to turn the page and move on. We all know that life goes on that we have to keep living and eventually move on.
But only you will know when its time to turn the page and move on, its going to happend when your ready, you got go through a process what ever it is, and sometimes you dont have the answer right away to say this will be done in a couple of hours,days or weeks.
The process of mournig or grief its very personal and you can’t rush it or denied it, believe me turning your back on it or not wanting to accept it, will make things harder and painfull becasue sooner or later you will have to go through it in order to move on and then turn the page.
Its not freezing time or stop liviing becasue life is constantly changing and like the waterfall is always moving, flowing being it true essence of water. But the glass also had an important role, it dint interfere the flow of the waterfall, it just support it and allow it the water to be just that water.
We all like to share happines and good times with our friends and love ones but also we have to Allow them to be sad, or nostalgic lend them a loving hand in supporting and understanding but at the same time allow them their space, and their process, sometimes not saying anything and just being their in silence or a shoulder to lean on and cry if its necessary is what we sometime just need. You may not understand it, or accepted it but you have to respect it.
Don’t try to make them avoid, or ignored their pain or sadeness, or tell them what to or not to fell nobody has that right, because they will run as far as possible from you and hide from the world until they are ready to come out becasue they turn the page and now there ready to move on.
Be the glass that waterfall slides on, letting the water be its self in all stages, thats the through meaning of friendship and love acceptance, tolerance, patience, and support.
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Don’t judge a book by it’s cover!
Have we lost the basic lessons of life that we were suppose to learn in elementary school or learn from our parents: listen, observe, read, think before you answer? Hope not!!!
It is easy to judge a book by its cover but never be full by it, you may probably think it’s about a specific subject by the first glimpse you took. Or even worst make assumptions that is not good enough or not worth your time to pick it up. Read at least the cover, and inputs of the author, that can give you a general idea before making any conclusion about it.
And let’s do the same with a person, read their profiles information if we are using Facebook or other pages. And when you meet or see someone for the first time allow yourself the chance and (also give them the opportunity) to at least get to know them briefly before making any assumptions.
In these days that everything needs to be done for yesterday, we dont have time, always in a daily rush of I have to do (the eternal race against time) normally, people don’t take the time to paste themselves and slow down, so they can really focus on what they were aiming for, and look an other person in the eye and not waste time and energy in things that are not really important.
When people judge others they are so fast to assume about the other person, and when they don’t get the respond they thought they were going to get back they become defensive, disrespectful and even play the paper of the offended victim.
Everybody is in title to their own opinion about their point of view of life, politic,religion etc. and when someone doesn’t agree with what you have to say, don’t get mad and start attacking the other partie just because the answer you got back from them is not the one you wanted or assume they were going to give you because you were the first one in judge and assume something about them.
Where’s is tolerance and respect toward other’s? Have we lost those qualities? Or is it that they’re only ok when it applies to our side?
Dont be mean, disrespectful and judgemental towards others, just because they dont share your same interest, point of view, values, likes and dislike, intelligence, social status, political view, sexual interest,background, studies, looks, etc. lets allow humanity to be their selves (thats why is interesting to meet new people and new experiences) as long as they dont harm you or your love ones, and most of all don’t step over your boundaries ,but also lets not go over theirs either; it works both ways.
Lets slow down, take a deep breath, value life, and relearn to value tolerance, respect, patience, obedience, discipline, be receptive towards others, etc. dont take me wrong we need to have fun in our lives but also balance, the extremes are never good,(once in a while eat a cookie or a chocolate molten) and the next time your going to be judgmental about a person or assume something about them because of the way they look, talk, etc. think twice because when the coin shifts to the other side its going to be about you.
So don’t do to others what you don’t want for you, AND DON’T JUDGE A BOOK BY ITS COVER!!!
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Welcome, to a new begining!
As im sipping a cup of joe, I take a second and take a deep breath and without any complications I just let my feelings be and an incredible sense of Peace comes from my heart. It’s overwhelming and Im enjoying every second of it, if I try to seek where does it come from, theres only one answer its coming from God, his loving Angels and my mom; and I dont doubt it because as Im writing tears are running down my checks and I know thats shes hugging me from heaven and wishing the best today!
Tears may be from sadness but there also cleanse our soul, and its the way to get in touch with our inner self and analyze whats going on in our hearts. Sometimes a human been can grow more in a blink of an eye, when we go through all kind of changes and motion. It pushes us to get out of our comfort zone and grow up and opened ourself to accept the lesson that the Universe is giving us, and it will be a little less stressful, not easy but if were willing to do our part and go with the flow of life, believe me its going to be smoother and faster.
So today I celebrate one more year of my life, saying that I been re-born into a new human being, a stronger woman, with a very clear vision of life and where Im headed to, and whats the plan to follow to get it done. And only excitement comes to my mind because Im welcoming the future by making my present better, letting go of the past and trusting that: “Everyday, In Every way through the Grace of God, I’m getting better and better”
He will always take care of me and my love one’s!
“Whoever welcomes you welcomes me, and whoever welcomes me welcomes the one who sent me. Whoever welcomes a prophet in the name of a prophet will receive a prophet’s reward; and whoever welcomes a righteous person in the name of a righteous person will receive the reward of the righteous; and whoever gives even a cup of cold water to one of these little ones in the name of a disciple—truly I tell you, none of these will lose their reward.”
Matthew 10:34-42
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Life’s Detours!
Every day in every way through the Grace of God Im getting better and better!! As I look back and not to stay in the past but just analyze, and meditate where I was and where Im heading to I just can say how much a human being can evolve and grow in just hours, days, weeks. Im bless to have great people in my life, people from whom I learn and admire. We all go through rough patches but at the end of the day its how you came out of them it what counts.
Your attitude toward the circumstances its whats going to make a difference it’s very easy to stay down and cry and fell sorry for yourself, and thats not bad at all, because we are not machines we are human and life sometimes hurts. It’s when you decided to keep playing the victim roll wanting everybody to fell sorry for you and not wanting to do anything to stand up and continue.
We can’t forget to see the whole picture, the important thing is not forgetting where you once were going to, we have a plan and we want to follow it up until the last step but sometimes life happens and it’s the way that God is telling us to change the path or reevaluate the plan, you got to be opened to see, fell and listen to the signs that the Universe is sending us.
Dont be discourage or disappointed or even worst don’t give up on your Journey because a small detour, OK sometimes its a big detour! but still you got to continue. Just take a deep breath and take things slowly, and you will see everything with new eyes from a new prospective. You cant continue to be hardheaded and insist in that its your way or the highway! Because maybe thats not the right way. And even worst we are so focus on getting to the end that we forget that we have to learn through the journey so many lessons.
I don’t know you, but I don’t want to missed out anymore on life, I want to be able to enjoy the journey, see the view, smell the flowers, listen to the masters, pick their brains and learn all that I can so when I arrived I know it was a BLESS OF A JOURNEY to get there and ill appreciated and value it even more.
How many times when something doesn’t go as we planed we found ourselves saying: and now whats the worst that could happened? instead of asking whats the best thing that could happened to me today? You know what: the sky its the limit to all the positive things that can come our way with just a change of attitude and thoughts.
Sometimes the journey to get there its the plan itself before we get to the end of our goal or dream. Ones wisdom, lessons, and knowledge obtain through the journey should also be part of achieving the goal so that way you will be complete to savor the result, and the fruits of our hard work.
I don’t want to stay down and cry and fell sorry for myself less alone have others fell pity for me, no I rebel against that and I stand up and continue. And when today I look back and I see where I am standing right know I know that I am where I need to be, I would probably liked to be better or more upfront, but now I know I cant skip a page in the book of life, because theirs a lesson I need to study before I can continue so at the end Ill be able to past with flying colors!!!!
So Ill never forget that tears, sadness, sorrow are a part of life and its necessary but also laugh, smile and happiness its the best part and that should be our daily goal, trying to be happy or stay focus in the state of mind to continue in pursue of happiness to become a better person. So today I bless my family, friends and does not so friendly because I learn from them and they show me how to become better
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2Day I set My spirit Free!
Today I set my spirit free ! I let it go strong and free like the wind that moves constantly without limits, without no beginning or end just free. And the places it went i could have never imagine them because I was a prisoner of barriers, of have too’s, should have and all the noncess that we allow our selfs to become slaves of, and most of the time society imposes…( or at least thats what we think)
Today I set my soul free ! It went free like a wild animal that cannot be hold down or kept in captivity for the pleasures and amusement of men.
By setting it free I found once more the purpose and meaning of the warrior! Shes always been free and no one or nothing can quiet or stop her, all this time she was trying to show me the way, but as the noise surrounded me I couldn’t listen to her voice, I couldn’t see her signals and the worst part I couldn’t fell her anymore…
But faithful to herself and to her duties she was always in battle, ready to protect, to move on, to do what ever it was necessary to be free, and continue the path to reach the goals and dreams that were starting to fade away, because the everyday situations were delaying them, making them each day a step farther than closer, making them seem impossible to reach and not worth faithing for.
Today I set my spirit free, to be strong like the wind, wild like the animal and it finally meet with the warrior and with the sword in her hand shes now protecting it to never again be prisoner to continue the journey of life to finally accomplish the dreams that once were left behind, and go after the new ones that are in the making with the new life she just found and wont let go…
So 2day… I set my spirit free!!!
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